Everybody gets a Chocolate

 

This is precisely the thing which is destroying all possible opportunities of a person to become strong and I have an issue with it, why you may ask (or even if you don’t) coz I’m crazy enough to see through this bullshit of everybody being a winner and making tasks easy and accomplishable for all in the name of confidence building but what they are doing in reality is making yourself weak and taking away that chance from you to fail at something and try hard the next time, its robbing you from becoming the best version of yourself and is allowing you to only be miserable and mediocre.

By making everybody a winner for nothing or by reinforcing every not so good behavior with materialistic objects you are conditioning yourself or your kid, significant other square circle or unicorn the art to lay low and not to try hard at anything, which may seem fun to some for a while but trust me when I tell you that the long term effects of this approach would create havoc on the personality and development in general.

What you can do instead is allow yourself to fail at something, don’t pick up easy tasks, tasks that don’t break a sweat (literally or figuratively) coz they won’t lead you the path of strength and personal growth. What I want you to try is take up a task that looks difficult to you do it and even if you fail do it again and again until you get it done. I know this sounds like very lazy counseling advice but still give it a shot pick up a difficult subject, A task, read it, do it and once you start to understand and develop proficiency in it then you’ll know which feeling I want you to chase, and then if you don’t like you can always go back to your usual easy task picking mediocre life.