The Reference Point...

We have forgotten who we actually are and what we are made of, we have just become living manifestations of reactions to what’s happening in our daily lives be it anything significant or trivial we just react to it without giving it a serious thought. On the superficial level there’s no problem in being reactive to things I mean that keeps us going and most of us live our days like this only, but if you look deep down you’d see that there is no real you left if you are just reacting to stuff on a daily basis because there is no active thought involved. What happens because of this is; your personality starts to diminish in value. But what is personality? It’s a set of behaviours, your emotional pattern, and what goes into your mind in situations (provided people use theirs).

So you see it’s just the regular things that add up and become your personality, and what happens if you’re just reactive to things you don’t have an action plan and you just go by the flow?

You start to lose the basic essence of your personality and you slowly drift towards something you never were of ever wanted to be.

Remember an incident when you have been told by someone that you have changed it’s not actually that you have changed (consciously) it’s that you have been changed by the events and the daily hassels of your life without you being aware of that.

You have been told this many times let me tell you once again that you’re unique and what you have nobody can have and if you be true to yourself nobody can take from you that which you are entitled to get. Read every word written above carefully and know that its load of crap you aren’t special and neither the world we treat you any better so grow a pair and try to be more active in taking decisions of your daily activities. But how do you know that you are drifting slowly? There’s a very simple trick to it develop a reference point, be it a friend that you talk to of be it you writing down your thoughts and ideas in a diary and when you do re-visit them then you’d get a very clear picture as to where do you stand, have your surrounding made an impact on your ways for good or for the bad?

Once you have it (the reference point) then you can analyze what steps are needed and how can you improve yourself even more because our personalities are dynamic in nature and what’s good about it is that it can always be made better and better and better, all you need to do is show yourself your true picture and don’t eat your bullshit lies that you activities are OKAY because if there’s one thing that kills the scope of being better that is your brain telling you that you’re OKAY enough.